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there has been a good deal of backbiting and name-calling among members. Ironic, because we're supposed to represent solidarity, but 10 people can't get along. There is clique-ness, name-calling, finger pointing, and so on. People are misquoted or misunderstood. I have been reading about feng shui and one of the things that was written was that sharp edges on tables should be avoided. We sat around a table before, but we also sat in a circle. But members would not show up to meetings and you can say some of them are what are called psychic vampires. Now, I've said before that I've read that fed infiltrators purposely screw up schedules, pick fights and do other things to wear away at the daily life of something. There have been fights over funds, and I find questionable what some are doing. Whether it is a conspiracy or just that someone is neurotic (and many are) or whatever, you don't know. Even someone said in a recent email, you don't know people's intentions. But I do know that I really am mad at some people's attitudes. They suck the lifeblood out of those around them and the group. And it's not the person in question, the one who is getting picked on. Ironically, the ones who are getting the most criticism are those most dedicated to feminism and change. But.......the one getting picked on is also in a self-destructive mode. She isn't doing anything to help herself. At least, some of these women are bitches but they are helping themselves, somewhat. One of them is this little Seven Sisters bitch and she is the main, like the ringleader, and I really can't stand her. I just don't like her. And she is the main one instigating all the changes. But.....I can say she is at least trying, she is at least working hard. You have to make some effort, you have to put in some appearance. It does matter.
But nevertheless why is that not enough? It's a LONG way off from being enough.